1. We are going to drill fundamentals! That's it.
2. I could care less if we win a game!
Ahh... the freshness of a new season and to hear those statements brings joy to your heart. You think to yourself, "My son/daughter is going to learn a ton!" Well, by the end of the season, collectively you and your child learned a lot of things.
What they really feel deep down inside is genuine, but the implementation is flawed. They really believe they will teach the fundamentals and as long as they do that, they will win, so point #2 will never come into play.
I pose the question.. ."Why is it so hard to commit to the Fundamentals?"
I have what I believe to be the answer.
It's simple. You will not win now. Your kids will win later when they are not playing for you. So why invest in people who aren't going to be loyal?
That's it. However, I've had to become comfortable with that premise. It was very hard, but now I am content with it. A wise coach told me, "If you do things the right way, you will not have a team." If I am doing things the right way, why will I not have a team? Where is the loyalty? Why wouldn't they want to stay and get better?
The hard truth for youth basketball is this. Parent's care more about winning than the player. They measure development with one key metric: WINS! The more you win, the better you are. That is true.....for now. The player who may not be a superstar now, but puts in the work, is committed to improving is the kid you want to surround yourself with. If you as a teacher/coach take the time to invest in those kids, they will invest in you. If you invest in a kid with a delusional parent who is above average at his/her age, they will sell you in a second to get on that winning team. Why? Simple really.... they want their kid to be the Star. That cannot happen when you develop everyone and do not place the ability to win in one kid.
My plea to parents is really find a teacher (not a coach) who teaches the game. Yes, they want to win, but understand they know it will take time. Your child's development clock has not struck midnight yet so he/she is not a dominate 6th, 7th 8th grader. Congratulations... you didn't peak in middle school! Be patient... stay in that slow cooker and enjoy the results later. Or, continue telling yourself that your phenom 6th grader is on his way to the NBA. Your choice. To conclude, I will leave you with some facts:
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